With baby on the way, I am desperately trying to accomplish what seems to be 101 different tasks. One of the most important things for me to get done though was making sure that we had some special things to give Gigi on the day she comes to the hospital to see baby for the first time, as well as for the first day we bring him home.
I had been thinking about what to special thing to do/give for weeks; looking online for ideas, asking for other moms. Most said to give her a new baby doll. While I understand how this could be helpful with some kids, Gigi has so many bay dolls already it just didn't seem special enough to me.
So night after night I racked my brain until finally I thought of a few ideas that I thought were pretty good. some were altered versions of things I had seen online, so I can't take full credit for everything - but all were customized to Gigi's taste.
Now that I had some ideas, the problem was which to actually go forward with. After only about 2 minutes of deliberation I decided - ALL of them! My thinking was, Gigi is my first child - and my only daughter - she is SO special to me, I don't see any reason to limit the ways that we show her this.
So this is what I have done - and I must say I am very excited and quite proud of myself that I actually have it all completed and packed up in my hospital bag.
For the first hospital visit:
For when Gigi arrives at the hospital for the first time to meet her baby brother, I put together a little "goodie bag" of sorts. The bag will be from Mommy and Dada to remind her that she is still our special girl.
In this tote I put some "Super Sleuth" items, since she likes that show; A new coloring book, two short story books, a puzzle and a game for her "Little Leaps" system (The game is actually a bit young for her, but she still likes playing the Little Leaps so I let her - besides, I found it on clearance for $4!).
Then, from baby brother she will get a foam crown that I decorated with stickers that says, "Big Sister" and a personalized button for her to wear that says, "I'm the Big Sister" and has her name on the bottom.
Also, a book called, "I'm a big sister" which is really cute.
Lastly, from baby brother she will get her very first Italian charm bracelet! On the bracelet are three charms. The first is a little girl with the May birthstone (Gigi's birthstone). Then there is a charm that says, "I'm the big sister" and last is a little boy with the November birthstone (which should be when baby makes his debut).
Now don't worry - I DO have a charm of a little boy with the October birthstone waiting on the sidelines in case he decides to come early - which I am anticipating. I can easily and quickly switch out if necessary.
For when we come home:
Then for the first day we are home from the hospital, we will have a small ice cream cake that says something like, "congrats on becoming a big sister" or something similar. I haven't bought this yet, but since ice cream cakes can keep well for a bit, I will probably buy it next week some time.
And lastly, I made a her a "Big sister on duty" diaper duty belt. This was a borrowed idea that I saw online usually intended for expectant dads at baby showers. I sewed this just for her. It is like a little tool belt. There are three small pockets in front that I filled with diapers, wash cloths and a rattle. Then there is one large pocket in the back that has diaper disposal bags in it. It will fit around her waist and she can wear it to help Mommy give baby a diaper change - which she has announced over and over again she plans on doing.
I realize I may have gone a little overboard - but hey, she is my princess and she deserves it!